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Sam’s Nikolaev Visit with Bill and Larisa

Sam’s Nikolaev Visit with Bill and Larisa. 

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Sam recently spent time in Nikolaev. His sole purpose was to get to know a lady he had corresponded with for some time. That friendship failed to materialize but, with Sam’s positive attitude towards life, he was able to create more friendships than he could have possibly imagined or expected. Sam lived in Ukraine for close to three months. He spent time with many people in both Nikolaev and Odessa. Sam’s Nikolaev visit was an experience he will never forget.

This is a great example of how to find a life partner in Ukraine. Over the past ten years, Larisa and I have met with and helped hundreds better understand the process of cross cultural relationships. In Sam’s case, he always thinks positive. He has always searched with an open mind. Sam is the kind of guy we like to help because he is always positive and listens to what we have share. We enjoyed Sam’s Nikolaev visit and the opportunity to help.

Sam’s Nikolaev Visit a Success.

When Sam sent me the following letter, I wrote him back and asked if I could share his letter with my readers. He was more than happy to share his thoughts, experiences and gratitude. He is a nice guy that just wants to find the woman who is searching for him. I have changed his name and few other personal details without editing grammar etc. Sam’s Nikolaev visit was a definite success.
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If you are searching for a special woman to share your life with, please contact us. We are always happy to help with knowledge and our experiences helping others. Searching for your other half on this side of the planet is never easy. Don’t lose faith in your abilities and just know that, out there somewhere, there is a woman searching for her knight in shining armor. Sam’s Nikolaev visit is proof that there are many ways to build relationships; this is just one.

Billgreen54

Dear Bill and Larissa,

Thanks so much for your birthday greetings.  I had a lovely day here in Oz and an enjoyable meal in the evening with friends.

Finally I’ve been able to sign paperwork being final property settlement agreement with my Ex – Donna.  As I mentioned previously; my Ex still works in the business with me.  I have already interviewed and found a replacement for Donna whom will start on 9th January.  Donna will spend a week or two training Nancy and then move to Brisbane to commence her new job etc., and be closer to the kids.   To our credit we’ve remained good friends and have a healthy respect for each other.

I must say that I really enjoyed my time in the Ukraine.  What an amazing country and people. I got to meet and make friends with some fantastic folks.   The kindness and care shown by yourself, Larissa and teachers touched me.   Sure the last 6 weeks or so was a little difficult and it tried to put a dampener on things, but overall I don’t regret one thing.

My eye appears to be finally settling down; and the specialist here commented on the outstanding job that Surgeon Galina did on my eye in Odessa.  I’m so grateful for her expertise and help. My new glasses are helping a real lot and finally I’m back at gym and able to get my body back into some shape again.

The end of my time in Nikolaev seemed to catch me unaware, so much so, that I ran out of time to catch up with you guys for a final meal and goodbye and with some other folk as well.

I must say Bill, that I was totally impressed with your school and the teaching program.  English Club is a real blast and was such an important part in me settling into the Ukraine.  My advice to anyone is that it simply takes time and consistency to form new friendships.

After I left the Ukraine I stopped into Oman for a few days to meet Sveta from Moscow. She hastily took vacation leave and paid for her flights etc., to Oman.  We have so much in common and both strongly feel that everything is heading in the right direction.   She’s met my mom and brothers via a Video Call and I will meet her parents this coming weekend via Skype.

She has applied for a visa to Australia and hopes for us to meet on 19th  December; with her returning to Moscow by the 9th  of January.  It hasn’t cost me a cent for any communication and she’s never asked me for anything other than friendship with honesty and open communication from day one.  We both feel we’ve met our best friend in the world and I’ve closed my profile from any dating site. As we say here in Oz, everything is going swimmingly)).

I will attach a few pics here of Sveta and also of our time in Oman. She’s 36 and never been married.  In reality she’s been married to her career and works ridiculously long hours and has to-date seen 86 countries in the world through travel and work.  Sveta is now ready for a sea-change in her life.

My hope Bill is that by the end of January I will own both businesses outright and have a new future with a special lady.

Due to recent changes with my Franchisee (ABC), I won’t be able to come back to the Ukraine for a period of time (i.e. say Christmas next year).   All in all, I’m happy with how thing are progressing and am really look forward to coming back to seeing you and Larissa as soon as possible.

I understand that Kelvin from New Zealand is coming back on 20th  December (subject to getting Visa Approved).  I have ceased communication with our Attorney mate from the US (ie Brendan Walsh) but now have made other great friends via Viber, Facebook and Skype.

Could you please pass on my love and regards to Oksana.

Has Larissa been able to speak to Tanya from English Club about doing English lessons?  Bill, if someone comes into the school that you both feel warrants special consideration for lessons etc., please feel free to discuss with me about some sort of sponsorship in part of full.  I don’t mind if it’s a gentleman or lady.  The “student choice” I leave with you both.

I feel it’s a small way that I can support your school whilst making a difference in someone’s life.   To be honest I can’t speak highly enough of what you do in Nikolaev and I’m privileged that I can join with you both in some way to further the good work.

Bill, I miss our chats and friendship; and I’m glad that you got to meet a normal foreigner for a change)).  Thanks for always having my back and for all your help.

Anyways, I had better finish here.  Once again thanks for everything and I look forward to more adventures with you both.

Yours sincerely,

Sam

My reply to Sam,

Hi Sam,

Thank you for your kind words. We are glad to hear you are doing well.
One question.
We are updating the PenPals Nikolaev web site. I would like to use your letter on our site. Would it be okay if I used a portion of your letter and changed your name? I can eliminate all references to you and your location. Your letter was well written and full of thoughts and ideas for any person to learn from.
We are putting more energy into this because I am preparing for the launch of our book next year in 2017. No:) I am not finished yet but, I will make sure you get a copy.
I am updating all of my articles on the PenPals website. Once I have updated every page, I will start adding new articles. Yours will be the first new article.
Thank you Sam.
Sam’s reply

Hi Bill

I agree to your request. Be a pleasure to help. If you need further stuff please let me know.

Sam

 

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Can we help you find YOUR angel?

Can We Help You Find Your Angel?

Find Your Angel
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Can we help you find your angel? Yes, there is hope for every man searching for his other half. While every persons idea of a life partner is different, there are elements that every man needs to know. Consequently, if you decide to search in a foreign land, learn as much as possible before you begin your search. Even though Ukraine is full of honest and sincere women, there are many who think much differently.

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Searching for YOUR Angle…

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Yes, there are many looking for you. They think the same way as you. It is not easy. Honestly? It shouldn’t be easy, as a result, searching for your angel can be filled with excitement or disappointment. It is all about how YOU think. It is important to know something about Ukrainian society, culture, family, education and much more. Knowing something about Ukrainian superstitions, could make the difference between success or failure. Find your angel with simple knowledge.

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One Size Never Fits All…

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Remember, just like every society and culture, one size never fits all, as a result, it is important to set yourself apart from the individuals who assume everything. Separate the way you think from the others. Searching for true love in Ukraine is much different than what you think. Knowing as much as possible about Ukrainian women, will help increase the odds of accomplishing your goals by one thousand percent. It’s sad to meet so many men in Ukraine who have visited many times and are still alone.

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Don’t Waste More Time…

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How much life does one need to waste while trying to learn something about a world that is in many ways, completely the opposite of yours. It took me nearly a year to gain the knowledge needed to find Larisa. Not a wasted moment learning about Ukraine and as much as possible about who Ukrainians are and how they think. Don’t waste any more time. Find your angel now.

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Share Your Life With Others…

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If I had known ten years ago what I know now, I certainly would have increased the odds of accomplishing my goals sooner. The fact that Larisa and I decided to live in Ukraine for the past ten years, makes us a little different than other couples. We enjoy sharing our life experiences and knowledge.

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The Trials and Tribulations…

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Sharing the trials and tribulations of so many men who have traveled to Ukraine with questions, has made our life very interesting. Foreigners who decide to search for a life partner in Ukraine can achieve their goal much sooner with the experience of others. Larisa and I have helped many couples find each other over the years. These are the men and women who allow us to share our lives and the lives of so many others.

Bill and Larisa First Met Ten Tears Ago…

We Never Planned It This Way…

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It was November 2007 when I traveled to Nikolaev for the second time. Larisa and I had discussed our plans about living in Nikolaev. It was important for us to get to know each other before we found our way to California. We have been together ever since. Actually, we had never planned to stay in Nikolaev for this long. We just allowed life to show us what is important in life. Find your angel like I did.

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Daily Lives in Nikolaev…

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Helping others achieve their goals has always been our daily passion. Foreigners searching for their second half. Ukrainian ladies searching for their night in shining armor. Ukrainians searching for a better life through education. This is just a small peek into our daily lives in Nikolaev.

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Why Live in Nikolaev Ukraine?…

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Our language school was founded in November 2008, one year after my arrival. It all started from the desire to help others and the need for income. There was another reason. With the financial crisis in America, it made little sense to go back to start a new life there. With little effort, we were able to see the opportunities here in Nikolaev. Teaching English seemed like a good idea for a number of reasons. It allowed me to study English while teaching it. For me, this is an important key to writing. More on this in our book to be released in 2017.

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Information and Experience Count…

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Why is it important to speak with us? Simple really. Although our website contains a plethora of information, there are a few facts missing. Actually, there is a lot missing from our website. Information, experience and advice all based on an individuals personal situation and goals. Learn more, find your angel now.

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The information on our site is more about guarding against the challenges and unexpected events that occur with sometimes less than honest people. Our site is also full of helpful general information to help decrease the odds of relationship failure.

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Finding Mrs Right isn’t Easy…

If you are truly interested in finding that special woman searching for you, read the information on our site carefully. Searching for a real Ukrainian woman to share the rest of your life with, isn’t easy.

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Sweep Her Off Her Feet Now…

Some men travel to Ukraine thinking that there are thousands of women dying to run from Ukraine. It’s not true. Dating websites want you to believe that Ukrainian women are starving for a foreigner to come and sweep her off her feet. Also, not true.

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She Just Wants to be Happy…

What is true is that there are countless women in Ukraine searching for true love. They are like most men and women. They just want to be loved by a real man. They just want to be happy. A real Ukrainian woman just wants to live her life in peace and harmony.

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Work Hard Respect Life…

Are you the kind of man who understands the needs of a woman? What about a Ukrainian woman? Ukrainian women are special for sure. They understand what life is all about. They work hard and respect life. Ukrainian women love family and celebrations. Our book with all of this information will be released in 2017.

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Nine Years and Counting…

Larisa and I are in a unique position to help others better understand how to create and build a strong foundation to solid relationships. We have helped countless men and women over the past nine plus years.

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No Two People are Alike…

Teaching over 15,000 hours of English during this time has helped me fully understand Ukrainian life from many perspectives. Meeting many men who have traveled to Nikolaev, has also taught us who people are. Remember that no two people are alike. No two people think the same. People are people and one size never fits all.

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Everybody is Different…

If you are searching in Ukraine or online for that special someone, we hope our website helps. When you get to the point when you have decided to live a real life adventure and need some guidance, contact us. We do conference often and help guide you in the right direction based on your individual circumstances.

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Eliminate The Bad, Meet The Good…

Our experience over the years is uncountable. No, we are not a dating agency. No we don’t introduce women. We help better understand how to weed out the unfaithful and dishonest by helping you. We help you better understand what to expect from a real Ukrainian woman. We help you find the woman who is searching for you.

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Bill and Larisa first met ten years ago…

Bill and Larisa First Met Ten Years Ago…

Ten days, ten years ago, April 2007. It was an indescribable time for both of us. Sharing every day together was better than a three day pass at Disneyland. Larisa showed me around town and introduced me to her friends. I knew things were getting serious when she agreed to introduce me to her son and parents. Here is a story I wrote a few years ago. It gives an open perspective of our first few days together in Nikolaev. Lots of food and fun.

 

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Through The Countryside…
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April, 2007, my first journey to Ukraine. A fun and interesting time. Great weather and a firsthand account of Ukrainian culture, complete with smiling faces and many warm, first, hello’s. During my ten day visit, while we made our way around Nikolaev, I was reminded of my hometown. The city where I grew up; just 40 minutes or so, east of San Francisco, California. As I remember it, Richmond, was full of places to shop and live. Houses, old and new, lined the countless quiet streets while thriving businesses took care of customers along the main thoroughfares. That was somewhere between 1953 and 1958.

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Fast Forward 50 Years…

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Fast-forward about 50 years to 2012 in Nikolaev and the similarities are striking. That first visit to Ukraine, took me back a few years and then some. Maybe, that’s why I felt right at home. During that first visit, Larisa and I, traveled to a small village just on the other side of Kherson. It was her village; the village she had grown up in. The wide variety of crops that filled the countryside reminded me of my home just before deciding to travel around the world. That was my first peek at the real Ukraine.

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Ukraine Oceans of Yellow…

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Living near Fresno California from 1996 to 2007 was interesting to say the least. Raising the kids, running a business, taking care of mom and dad were all unforgettable life experiences. The Fresno valley is very similar to much of Ukraine. Endless fields growing everything from grapes to wheat can be seen while traveling the highways. Ukraine is famous for it’s agriculture along with many other industries. It’s a top producer of sunflower and corn oil in this part of the world. The countryside is often filled with oceans of yellow. It’s quite a site to see at the peak of the sunflower growing season.

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Meet The Parents…

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Our journey from Nikolaev to Larisa’s village took just over two hours. The highways here can be an adventure, but for the most part, they were drivable at reasonable speeds. As we slowed down coming off the highway, we entered Vinogradova. The streets quickly became smaller and unpaved, all in pretty good shape. As we drove past home after home, I was eager to finally meet Larisa’s parents and son. We were bearing gifts for Vlad; all for football. As we pulled up to her parents home, I was struck by the humble surroundings. I couldn’t wait to meet everyone while I could see that Larisa was more than a little nervous. We had just met face to face for the first time just three days before…

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Red Wine and Tasty Dishes…

Meet The Parents
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Vlad’s new football and shoes came in handy providing a reason to get to know each other. Kicking the ball up and down the dirt street lasted just long enough for things to settle down in the kitchen. Once the table was set and filled with everything from fish to borscht, Vlad and I made our way to the table. It was filled with all kinds of tasty looking dishes. Some recognizable and a few plates filled with adventure. What to eat? Well, not to worry, there was time to enjoy it all. There was just one little tradition to begin the celebration with first. The toast! No, not bread in a toaster. To toast with a little of Peter’s red wine. Peter was famous for his red wine. He was also known for sharing it with others. He had been producing his infamous red wine for years for all to enjoy. It was quite tasty and Peter was more than generous even though we forgot to share with the others. It was more like, the others needed to control the situation rather than join the contest before taking the first bite.

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Peters Smile and The Last Drop…

Can you imagine what Peter was thinking? Here was his little girl who brought this guy home from the other side of the planet. What was she thinking? More importantly, what was going through Peters mind? There wasn’t time to ask too many questions. Just a few seconds to pour the first glasses of wine. One for Luda, a little for Vlad, some for Larisa and no room to spare for Peter and I. Glasses sitting on the table and forks in hand, Peter slowly raised his glass, said a few words and gave me a stare with a smile. Not sure what he said but, it was as warm as can be. And with that, Peter continued his stare and smile with glass at the starting line. The next few seconds went by in the blink of an eye. As Peter began to down the wine, so did I. Both staring at each other while savoring the last drop.

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Down to The Last Drop…

Glasses on the table with speechless company to my left and right, Peter brought our glasses to the brim with his tasty home brew. Without a second to lose, We went for our glasses. Once they neared their final approach, down they went. No words. No toast. Just “Over the lips, past the gums, look out stomach, here it comes! Frantically and cautiously together, I grabbed for the nearest something to eat. I hadn’t eaten for some hours. Fish, bread, borscht. everything close enough to grab went down the hatch. With no time to lose, Peter poured another. Thank heavens my prayers were answered, Peter emptied every last drop from that bottle. While the onlookers weren’t amused, they weren’t surprised either. Although I was a guest in their house, they understood Peter explicitly. I understood the power of a Ukrainian woman’s eyes when Peter grabbed the bottle for a refill. One look from Luda and it was clear, we had had enough fun. Welcome to Ukraine!

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Just One of The Boys…

Here I am, in the home of a woman I was just getting to really know and all I could think about was competing at the dinner table. Thankfully, Larisa saved the tongue lashing for the trip back home. The only person amused besides me was the driver. I suppose it was our first relationship test. Of course, I apologized for wanting to be one of the boys. We both agreed that future celebrations would be kept to a quiet roar and alcohol consumption would be strictly monitored. Was it a good idea to have too much fun at the home of my sweethearts parents? Lets just say that I am lucky to have an understanding wife and extremely fortunate to be understood…

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Larisa is from Ukraine

Larisa is From Ukraine…

Born and raised in Ukraine in a village in the Kherson region, Larisa is an only child but, never alone. Her mother and father raised her to be strong and independent. Her grandparents gave her family and wisdom. Growing up in Ukraine has never been easy but, for many before 1989, life was considered good. Job security, a place to live, land to farm. Life wasn’t so bad. The 90’s was a much different time. More about Larisa in our book to be published in 2017.

Larisa…

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Larisa Green Kiev

Larisa started her search by signing up on a dating website in early December 2006 just weeks before we met on the Internet. Thankfully, she agreed to chat with me after my first “Hello”. That was mid December just after my return from Russia. Over the next few months, Larisa and I communicated on a paid dating site daily with few exceptions. We discussed many parts of our lives. The more we wrote to each other, the more we understood there was something special between us. Impossible to explain even today. I just know that whatever force allowed us to find each other was like magic. Looking back at that time, there were many elements that fell into place. To fully understand what we were doing with our long distance friendship wasn’t easy. We just let life guide us knowing everything would be okay.

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The First Phone Hello…

It was mid March 2007 when we decided it might be a good time to speak with each other by phone. Just one small problem; we didn’t speak the same language. The good thing was that, language difference didn’t matter. Just listening to the others voice would be a great start to a future relationship. We spoke to each other for the first time by phone with the help of a lady that spoke a little English. It was just enough to help us say hello to each other. Actually, saying hello was the easy part. My “How are you?” and her “Giggle” was enough to seal the deal. I knew I needed to get on a plane and meet Larisa in person.

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The First Handshake…

Just weeks later, I made my way to Odessa Ukraine. Larisa was standing in the lobby with a look I will never forget. Can you imagine a Ukrainian woman with the look of fear written all over her face? Ukrainian women are taught from birth to be strong and serious with a twist or two and a special smile… They need to be strong and focused. It’s what Ukrainian society is all about. Well, more about that in our book. I can just tell you that after a quick handshake and a peck on the cheek, Larisa smiled and I followed. We found our way to the taxi parked just outside the entrance. The taxi driver was polite and accommodating.

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The First Trip Together…

Larisa and I jumped into the back seat of Vadim’s black sedan and off we went. Interpreter in the front seat and Vadim navigating through traffic. The two hour drive felt about as long as a heartbeat. Larisa and I passed the electronic translator back and forth the entire trip to Nikolaev. The interpreter riding shotgun, hardly spoke two words. She spent most of the trip on her phone. Larisa and I were able to understand each other even though we didn’t speak the same language. In fact, except for that two hour ride, we have never used the services of an interpreter. We just knew that there was something special about our ability to understand each other without language.

Those Beautiful Sad Eyes…

As we drove through Nikolaev, I felt right at home. It was an odd feeling but comfortable. Vadim pulled up to the apartment building where I had rented a one bedroom flat for the next ten days. As we entered the flat, Larisa seemed a little nervous. I paid the interpreter and off she went. I told her that we wouldn’t be needing her services any longer. Larisa sat on the sofa and I made my way to the bathroom. After a quick shave and a splash of cologne, I stepped into the front room to find Larisa looking up at me with beautiful sad eyes. As I walked up to her, she handed over the translator. I sat down beside her and read her translated words.

I Don’t Speak English…

I will never forget those words. It was to be the beginning of something special. While reading Larisa’s message, I realized there was no looking back. Just look into the future and understand that everything will be okay. Her message read “I don’t think this is a good idea, I don’t speak English”. Having just traveled around the globe to meet this special woman, I had just one thought for her. “Life is an adventure, let’s go”. She smiled and we went for a long walk. It has been ten years since we first met. We couldn’t be happier. Our book will be out in 2017. We will share the last ten years of our life. Our hope is to inspire others and to share our life with you.

We hope you find our articles and stories interesting and useful. Our goal is to help others understand that there is a way to improve your odds of finding that special someone.

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Bill is from America

Bill is From America…

It was December 2006, just returned to America from Saint Petersburg Russia after a ten day stay. My time there was exciting and nerve racking all at the same time. Meeting an English teacher in Russia was definitely a first for me. Teaching three kid’s English in that big city, was an experience I will never forget.

Six Ladies…

Over those ten days, I had the pleasure of meeting six ladies. Although, they were all interesting, there was no chemistry. A psychologist, a dentist, a skating instructor, a housewife, a baby doctor and an English teacher. Interesting for sure, just no chemistry. My journey back home was uneventful. Just a long trip. A lot to think about for sure. I had no idea that I would make Nikolaev Ukraine my home someday.

Bill…

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Billgreen54 in Kiev Ukraine

Jet lag and the time difference was a real challenge but, after a good nights sleep and self reflection, I continued my search. I knew there was someone searching for me. You know… Two ships passing in the night? I knew that if I stopped searching, it would be impossible for her to find me. I knew she was out there somewhere. My angel was waiting for me. Sounds crazy, right? You wouldn’t think that way if you knew Larisa… She was in fact, waiting for me to offer up the first hello. She didn’t know it was me she was searching for and … well… I had no idea who or where my angel was either. I just knew that I couldn’t give up. Can you imagine she was waiting for me in Nikolaev Ukraine all this time. Without continuing my search, we would have never found each other.

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My Journey to Russia…

Before my journey to Russia, I had devised a way to help weed out the good from the not so good. That took me nearly a year. A year of daily communication with ladies all over the Internet. My journey started in early 2006. No, it didn’t start with a Russian dating web site. Quite the opposite was true. It started with the idea of searching for a real woman that would understand me, love me through thick and thin until death do us part… Isn’t that how it is supposed to be? Of course, I would do the same for her. Oh, and don’t forget to toss in that communication thing with a little compromise as well.

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Where is Nikolaev Ukraine?…

That takes me back to how all this started. You know… How I ended up living in Nikolaev Ukraine with my angel; The most beautiful woman in the world. It all started soon after New Years 2006. Wanting to start the new year out right, my new years resolution was to lose a little weight, get fit, meet an angel, fall in love and… well you know the rest… I did what most do these days, I signed up on a few dating web sites. E-Harmony, True.com and Match.com. For everyone who has searched for your other half over the Internet, hard work, lot’s of letters and my handsome looks. That was all I needed to get back into the dating scene. Who knows what might happen after that?

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The Letter from New York…

Just weeks after signing up on all those websites, I received an email from a nice lady in New York. Can you imagine? Me from California and this nice lady from the other side of the country? Her letter was short. Something like “Hello, my name is Natasha, I am from New York, would you like to communicate?” At first glance, the thought of long distance communication, travel, expense and and and, was enough for me to forget about the letter. However, being the adventurous kind of guy that I am, I decided to write her back and say hello. What the heck? What did I have to lose?

No Charm The Third Time…

A day or so later, I received a reply from my new friend in New York. The letter was short and surprising all at the same time. The letter said something like this… “Thank you for writing me. I want to tell you that my best friend helped me write my profile and she made a small mistake. I am not from New York, I am from Russia!” Oh boy? Sounded a little crazy to me. I wrote her back asking for a phone number to help me verify where she was from. A reply was never received. Strange that someone from Russia would send me a letter. Not giving it a second thought. I forgot about the letter and continued writing the other ladies. All from California. I dated two ladies once and one lady three times. No chemistry and few prospects. It was still early 2006 and lady luck was not on my side. I wasn’t in a hurry. I just knew I was tired of being alone.

Lot’s of Pretty Photos…

It was nearly March 2006 when a revelation struck me. Working away at my desk, out of the blue, a thought crossed my mind. What about Russia? At first, I thought the idea of even thinking about a woman on the other side of the planet was just plain crazy. What about travel? Language? Age? Culture? Those and about a million other rational thoughts went through my mind. Without much thought beyond reality, my fingers typed the words “Russian woman” on the keyboard.

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Sending me to a plethora of Russian dating sites. I thought “Oh my god! What is this?” I had no idea there were so many sites with Russian women. Overwhelming didn’t come close to what was going through my mind. No, it wasn’t the pretty photos that got me excited. It was the sheer numbers of websites and the thousands of profiles. Nikolaev Ukraine was the last place on earth I would have thought about living.

The Last Ten Years…

Over the next few days and after a lot of research, I signed up on a Russian dating site. The months that followed led me to my trip to Russia. That’s what led me to the first hello. The entire story is in our book to be published in 2017. All I can tell you today is that we found each other worlds away. We live a great life in Nikolaiv Ukraine. Our marriage has flourished beyond our dreams. The last ten years has been a real life adventure.

Thanks for visiting our website. We hope you find it informative and entertaining. We are always happy to share our life with new friends here in Nikolaev Ukraine. Good luck with your search. Don’t forget “Life is an adventure, Live it to the fullest everyday!

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Dave’s Question About DM and MD. Billgreen54

Dave’s Question About DM and MD…

Bill I’m curious to know why you went after Mark Davis Dream Connections on your pen pals web site and on YouTube? Thanks, Dave.

Free Russian or English Lesson
Mark Davis Dream Connections
Pretty Woman Nikolaev

Hi Dave,

Ten Do’s and Dont’s you should knowCould you direct me to the pages that specifically refer to dream connections or Mark Davis Dream Connections in a negative way?

My staff will address this issue. I write about many issues concerning relationships in Nikolaev UKraine. Perhaps you misread something?

It was a pleasure speaking with you yesterday by Skype. I always try to find free time to help friends. Thank you for your payment as well. Obviously, you are a smart guy who just wants to find a sincere life partner.

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It’s never easy, nor should it be. Please feel free to contact me with questions and your positive experiences while searching for a life partner in Ukraine.

Here are a few more thoughts that might help you with your search in Ukraine.

Socials and Tours. Don’t waste your money.

Educating Others Daily…

After living in Nikolaev over eight years, starting and building two language schools, teaching over 15,000 hours of English, building many online businesses, coaching and consulting countless with life in Ukraine and meeting hundreds of men searching for true love right here in Nikolaev, there is little I haven’t heard. Larisa and I are here to help educate others with facts and success stories about the search for life partners in Ukraine.

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Mark Davis Dream Connections…

When you live within a society, the opportunities to learn about that society, are everywhere. People who visit Nikolaev for a few days are often amazed at how much there is to learn about real life in Ukraine. Mark Davis Dream Connections does not live in Nikolaev Ukraine.

The differences between everyday life here and other countries can be quite surprising. I offer my knowledge and life experiences to others because I can. This knowledge has helped countless achieve life goals. I have the freedom to create and live my life together with the most beautiful woman in the world. That would be my wife and precious half, Larisa.

Searching for Mrs. Right and a few thoughts

Unfortunately, there are many myths regarding International dating and Ukraine.

Just a few facts that might help you with your search.

Although most women here can cook, most don’t look forward to it.

Most Ukrainian women aren’t interested in building big families. Most women here stop at one child. The same is true for women who immigrate to another country.

The average height of a woman here is five feet three inches or close to 163 cm.

Compare any private language school to Larisa English.

Most women here don’t eat breakfast. For those that do, an open faced butter and meat or cheese sandwich will do.

Women here detest a man that spends money on a large bouquet of flowers. Women here are much more practical.

Women here are expert lie detectors. Never lie to a Ukrainian woman if you expect to see her tomorrow. There is no such thing as a white lie.

Ukrainian women make much better managers than most Ukrainian men.

Ukrainian women teach men about life, honesty, responsibility and more. Not the other way around.

These are just a few facts that have helped all of our clients find true love.

Private English lessons are always the best.

Remember that most men who travel to Ukraine fail to find a life partner. Most go home empty handed. Most fail to understand why a Ukrainian woman would ever consider a foreigner as a life partner.

Most make the same mistakes as those that fail. Taking responsibility as an individual when searching for a life partner in Ukraine is much more impressive to a Ukrainian woman than a man who joins some kind of support group. Mark Davis Dream Connections visits Nikolaev sometimes.

Also? Remember that love is blind. You should never search for a life partner in Ukraine without guidance from an expert who has helped hundreds achieve life goals.

I have been coaching men and women over eight years. Larisa and I are proud of all the happy families we have helped to create.

Mark Davis Dream Connections is an interesting person.

Let me know if you would like to schedule a personal one on one Skype conference with me. We would be happy to help another friend achieve his life goals.

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Tommy and One Bad Apple….

Tommy and One Bad Apple…

Update!!! One Bad Apple 2016… It was over seven years ago. This article was written to help men understand that when a relationship fails, there was never a relationship. Tommy is in his 40’s. He is still alone. He has never married. He still sends threatening letters to Elena and her family. Elena is happily married to a decent Ukrainian man. In 2015, Elena wrote me asking if I would ask Tommy to stop harassing her and her family; I did. This year (2016) she sent me an email telling me that Tommy continues to send threatening letters to her and her family. Tommy works for The United States Government.

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One Bad Apple
One Bad apple in Nikolaev Ukraine

Over the past nine years, Bill and Larisa have helped hundreds better understand cross cultural relationships. One bad apple can ruin the entire bunch.

This is a letter I wrote to Tommy. A friend we helped to determine if the woman he was communicating with was honest. Over time and after teaching her English, Elena demonstrated her intentions to Tommy. Tommy was an interesting person.

I remember him telling me that he would be ruthless to Elena if she turned out to be lying. Sadly, she was living a lie for months while they communicated. Once Tommy traveled to Ukraine to meet her, he could clearly see her intentions. One bad apple is rotten.

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She is typical of girls at agencies getting paid big bucks to lie and steal from nice guys just searching for a real woman. Elena lured Tommy to Ukraine by making promises she had no intention of keeping.

Tommy was relentless. After he went back to the USA, he sent letters to all her neighbors, telling them where she worked and what she did to make money. Elena also scammed the website and agency she had gone to. This is another trick girls play on foreigners everyday in Ukraine. This girl actually stole from the people paying her salary to scam men who came to meet her. Clearly, one bad apple.

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Hi Tommy,

I fully agree with you that it’s a great feeling to know that Elena is paying the price for what she did. As far as we can see, she’s not working at any agency or scamming anyone now. We’ll continue to keep our eyes open for Elena’s behavior at all the web sites we track for clients.

Tommy….. I think what’s important now is for you to move on. I’ve seen too many men come to Nikolaev, get scammed and continue to dwell on her and what happened for months on end. I realize how easy it is for this to consume a person. We get to see it first hand just about everyday in Nikolaev.

The bigger problem is what it’s doing to you, not….what you’ve accomplished by getting even. The longer you make her pay, the more time wasted for you. If you continue to spend time going after her, each day will force your life to stand still. You need to live your life, not hers. You need to take the knowledge you’ve learned and use it to help you with your search for a real woman.

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It should be obvious that her parents and family will stand with her long before they will with you, no matter what she did. Sending her parents letters makes a statement and it has made her look bad, without question. You did what you wanted to do, you embarrassed her in the eyes of her family. She’ll be paying the price for a very long time. The best thing any man can do after being scammed, is to do his utmost to embarrass a girl in the eyes of her family and get her tossed off all web sites.

Since you got her kicked off all the web sites, she has no job. You’ve stopped her from scamming someone else, at least for the moment. Now it is time to move on. One bad apple is enough.

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You’ve taken the time to do many of the same things to Elena as she did to you. She stole your money. She wasted your time. She lied to you repeatedly. She brought you to Ukraine under false pretenses. She tried her best to scam you while you were in Nikolaev. She lied to the marriage agency and didn’t tell them that she was meeting you. She used a friend to act as the interpreter so she could scam you and stop the agency from making any money. She lied to you when she said she had to go home, but she was actually online at Dream and who knows what other web sites scamming, scamming and scamming. All the time, making you waste your time just sitting at your flat waiting for her to meet with you. One bad apple has paid a hefty price.

Study Russian online. First lesson is always free.

There’s no question this girl is rotten. She has no moral ethics, she’s not honest at any level. She’s not afraid to steal from the marriage agency where she was working in chat. She wasn’t afraid to ask you to buy her gifts while you were in Nikolaev. She screamed at you over the phone telling you to give her money. She lied to you about not speaking English and on and on and on.

Sadly, this story is more the norm than the exception. Good girls just don’t go to marriage agencies any longer. For all of them, it’s just a job. I hope something I said helped and that you move on to find the woman searching for you. I can tell you that there are many serious, honest women in Nikolaev searching for a real man. You just need to know how to pick through the bad apples.

Study Russian online. First lesson is always free.

Mr. Green has assisted clients searching for someone to share their lives and dreams with, for nine years. While living in Ukraine during this time, Mr. Green has met and consulted with countless men and women. During this time Bill and Larisa have helped many couples better understand the elements of building a successful cross cultural relationship. Mr. Green shares his thoughts and experiences with the hope that you find value and success in accomplishing your life goals.

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Curious How Marriage Agencies Work?

Curious How Marriage Agencies Work?

Are you curious about why you get letters by the hundreds in your In-box from marriage agencies? Have you ever wondered who actually writes the letters letters from marriage agencies?

Who Writes The Letters?

Marriage Agencies
Curious Woman Nikolaev

Would you like to learn Ten simple steps to find out a woman’s true intentions? Would it surprise you to learn that at least half of all love letters written to you are written by men?

Did you know that you can live a great life for less than $400USD a month in Ukraine? Stop wasting time trying to figure out all of this alone. Knowledge is power. Education is essential to accomplish goals of every kind. Learn how marriage agencies work.

Teach English in Ukraine.

Let Bill and Larisa share their lives with you. Discover how to make a living in a foreign country with the woman of your dreams. Learn what it takes to build businesses in Ukraine. Find out how reasonably you can live in Nikolaev.

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One conference will save you thousands!
Mr. Green has been conducting informational conferences with clients from around the world for the past eight years!

Larisa and Bill have helped thousands understand the ins and outs of Cross Cultural relationships. They found each other on a popular paid website ten years ago.

Over the past nine years, Bill and Larisa have founded two language schools in Nikolaev Ukraine where they live and work. They have helped many couples come together and get through the rough spots while developing a loving, lasting relationship. Bill is from California and Larisa is from Ukraine.

Most popular English Club in Ukraine.

Bill and Larisa have personally met hundreds of men face to face in Nikolaev over the years. They have shared their relationship experiences along with just about every detail imaginable.

Conferences are; Ask, Answer, Ask. Mr Green conducts conferences by Skype and from his offices in Nikolaev, Ukraine.

Contact Mr. Green to schedule a conference…
Please tell him what time is best for you and what city and country you live in. Payments can be made to PayPal.

What are you waiting for? Find true love now.

Contact Bill and get the answers you are searching for.

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Conferences

A Conference with Billgreen54…

A conference is one hour but may go longer time permitting. You pay just $50USD for a one hour conference with Bill. A bargain for ten years experience. A conference with Bill and Larisa is just $75USD.

Conference
Conference with Billgreen54

Why not ask both Bill and Larisa all your questions?

Payments can be made with PayPal or credit card. It’s easy!

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One conference will save you thousands in cash and years of frustration living alone.

Tommy and One Bad Apple Story.

The Past Decade…

Have your questions ready. Bill will answer all. He will share his life experiences on international dating since he began his search for Larisa. They have been together since December 2006.

Married and living in Nikolaev for the past nine years, they are always happy to share their life with you.

Are you curious about why you get letters by the hundreds in your In-box? Have you ever wondered who actually writes the letters? Did you know most of the time, the lady in the photo isn’t who you think she is? Should you meet more than one woman face to face? How should you meet? What should you do to make a good first impression? Does language difference really matter?

Ten simple facts you should know.

Apartment Rental Cheap…

Would you like to learn Ten never revealed steps to help you determine a woman’s true intentions and increase your odds of finding true love? Bill will share his secrets with you. Secrets learned from thousands over the past ten years.

Did you know that you can live a great life for less than $400USD a month in Ukraine? Renting a flat can cost as little as $100USD a month. Stop wasting time trying to figure out all of this alone.

The First Meeting. This will help too.

The Past Ten Years…

Knowledge is power. Education is essential to accomplish goals of every kind. We will help you find your place in life.

Let Bill and Larisa share their lives and the past ten years with you. Discover how to make a living in a foreign country with the woman of your dreams. Bill and Larisa have helped many men and women with our private exclusive services.

Learn what it takes to build businesses in Ukraine. Find out how reasonably you can live in Nikolaev.

Mr. Green has been conducting informational conferences with clients from around the world for the past nine years.

Bill and Larisa have helped thousands understand the ins and outs of Cross Cultural relationships. They found each other on a popular paid website ten years ago.

Over the past nine years, Bill and Larisa have founded two language schools in Nikolaev Ukraine where they live and work.

Bill and Larisa have expanded their school and facilities five times since opening in November 2008. Larisa English Ukraine has ten classrooms and a theater that accommodates 50. All located on Sovietskaya (Sobordna) and Shevchenko 63 downtown Nikolaev Ukraine.

Students study languages online from around the world. Larisa School of Language has become the most popular private language school in Nikolaev Ukraine.

They have helped many couples come together and get through the rough spots while developing a loving, lasting relationship. Bill is from California and Larisa is from Ukraine.

Bill and Larisa have personally met hundreds of men face to face in Nikolaev and online over the years. They have shared their relationship experiences along with just about every detail imaginable.

Bill and Larisa have helped many men confirm the integrity and honesty of thousands of women in Nikolaev Ukraine.

Conferences are; Ask, Answer, Ask. Mr Green conducts conferences by Skype and from his offices in Nikolaev, Ukraine. If requested Larisa will attend the conference as well.

Contact Mr. Green to schedule a conference…
Please tell him what time is best for you and what city and country you live in. Payments can be made to PayPal, Credit Card, MoneyBookers, Western Union, MoneyGram or cash. We have helped clients all over the world. Please allow them to share the past ten years with you.

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Want to know more? We would like to help you. Remember that each person is different. Every situation requires a unique perspective. No two people share the identical circumstances. If you are planning to be successful and find your angel, create a plan that works.

 

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Why are Ukrainian Women Special?

Why are Ukrainian Women Special?

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This question is posed to me just about everyday. Why are Ukrainian women different? Why are they special? Why do men from around the world search for a woman to love in Ukraine? Why do women from Ukraine search outside her own country?

Bill and Larisa First Met Ten Tears Ago…

Beautiful Ukrainian Woman
Special Ukrainian Woman

It’s impossible to come up with a generic answer. I can only share my experiences since my search began for Larisa in December, 2006. We first met face to face at the Odessa airport in April, 2007. While living in Nikolaev teaching over 15,000 academic hours of English it would be impossible not to have learned a little something about everyday life and real people in Ukraine.

Bill is From California…

A Few Facts…

A few facts. A real Ukrainian woman can’t lie under any conditions. She will never ask for money or accept gifts from someone she hasn’t known personally over an extended period of time. She is faithful to a fault and can have a slightly elevated level of jealousy towards other women, including close friends.

The First Meeting. This is a Must Read!

Pride and Dignity…

Women here are special for many reasons, including their ability to stretch a dime into a dollar. Faithfulness in a relationship is never talked about, but is always understood. Real women here carry themselves with pride and dignity everyday. Going out of the house anywhere in society is never done in anything less than fashion, class and style. From cooking the tastiest foods anywhere, there’s never an empty stomach. The thought of preparing anything from a box is unheard of.

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Be Honest With Her…

Men from many countries come to Ukraine to meet real woman. The biggest problem is that most of the men who actually make it to Ukraine are less than honest. Always be honest with a woman here and you stand a good chance of creating something special.

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We Can Help You…

Want to know more? We would like to help you. Remember that each person is different. Every situation requires a unique perspective. No two people share the identical circumstances. If you are planning to be successful and find your angel, create a plan that works.

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Meeting a Ukrainian Woman Online… John’s Letter with Answers….

John’s Letter with Answers…

Receiving and answering letters daily takes a lot of time and effort. These days, I can’t reply to every letter but, I try to answer the most important letters sent to me. This letter from John was sent a few years ago but, it is still pertinent. Take some time and read John’s letter with answers. Enjoy!

Bill,

I have been reading your website for about 4 hours now and have found a lot of good information. I do have a request for services, but I want to also give you the story of why I would like to use your translator service! Please feel free to post it on your forum.

Lonely American Man
Average American Man

Well I am a 40 year old man and not bad looking with a good job. I have found that the women in the US have lost all traditional values among other things. Well I am newly divorced but was separated for a very long time. I wanted to get back into dating and was not looking for women more than 50 miles from where I live!

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John’s Letter, Answers and Solutions…

I joined several dating sites with no luck. In that time I found that a lot of women from outside of the USA use locations from the US as there home listing on dating sites. Please let your readers be aware of this!

Well, in my search I got contacted by one of my match’s (Not on Match dot com) and she is from Nikolaev Ukraine. I didn’t think much of it and did a short reply about her being real! Well after about a month of emailing though the dating site we decided to see where things could go between us. So we closed our dating sites to see where things will go!

I want to remind your readers that education is the key to being safe when talking to and dating girls from out of the country. During our time on the dating site I started to research all I could about dating outside of the USA. I started to learn as much as I could about the Ukraine culture!

I do not speak Russian and she speaks no English, but I am taking Russian courses! I have only made a few small mistakes in communicating with her but only because I educated myself before hand! If I would have not done my home work I would have made some big mistakes. I may not have been writing this today!

We are now in a committed relationship on-line which takes a level of trust that I can not even describe! I even sent her a camera (yes a gift over $20) and said it was ours not hers so she could take pictures of her life to share with me! I have also sent her flowers the first time was on Women’s day this year and one rose last week.

Now when you use a service to send gifts let your readers know that the easiest way to prove who you are talking to, is to have the gift delivered with picture or video taken on delivery! This was the proof that I got to know who I was talking to, just to protect myself. We also Skype about every three weeks, so I know who I am talking to and am going to meet.

Things have been going really well and I believe that good things can come form this relationship, and I feel she feels the same way. We do have an age difference, she is 28 and I am 40, but my rule of thumb is this ((AGE/2)+7) which may not work for everyone but it does work well from age 21 and up! Well through our communications we started to talk about me going to visit her, and after some research on cost she actually encourage me to not come, as to not spend the money!

I explained to her that the cost of dating a woman in the USA would add up to the trip cost over time so the cost didn’t bother me! She was OK with this and we set up a time frame that works best for her and her work! She is a Nurse in a state hospital in Nikolaev. Well I now have the plane tickets in hand and will be visiting for 9 days in August! Wish us luck, because I feel it will be and adventure!

So I will be arriving to my apartment on August 12th 2012 and would like to have a translator for a good part of the day on August 13th 2012 as long as her day off stays a day off, but you know how it goes with hours and state hospitals!

I feel it would be a good thing for the first meet and just to spend time getting to know one another looking around the city! If all goes well then to dinner with the interpreter as well. I do have an iPhone and have a really great app that I feel will be perfect for the rest of my time there!

We are only planning one night out and the other times we will be cooking in and by weeks end if she feels the same as she does now a dinner at her Granny’s house and one at her brothers house. I also would like to visit your school on the main street while there and in the future may look to other services offered by you for her! I am a Information Technology manager so who knows I may not want to leave and get a job there!

Thank You
John

My Response to John…

Hi John,
Thanks for writing.

I try to find a few minutes each week to post a few thoughts. I am glad you found some useful information. Be sure to contact me just before yo make it to Nikolaev so we can schedule an interpreter for you.

The First Meeting. This is a Must Read!

John’s Letter with Answers is Typical…

Your story sounds similar to mine starting out in 2006, however, one of the things I have learned from my experience is to never open and answer a letter sent to me first. Your situation is a little different.

Leaving a paid website can have a little of the good, bad and ugly. When you are using an international dating website, there are some protections you might want to know about.

Larisa is from Ukraine…

Read John’s Letter with Answers First…

First, all girls (even professional chatters and letter writers) get paid to chat with men everyday. They also use other ladies profiles without web-cam to chat and make money for herself, the agency and the website on many more than just one website.

Second, all ladies who use reputable paid websites, sign a contract. It says many things, including that a woman will never ask for money or gifts. If she does, I have known many men who have received massive refunds and credits. Of course, there is a lot more to this, just remember that once you communicate outside an agency and paid web site, you are on your own with no recourse if something goes sour. Personally, I would NEVER COMMUNICATE with any woman outside an agency and paid website before we have met at least once face to face.

You stated that she speaks no English. Why is that? What foreign language did she study at school? Have you asked her? All citizens of Ukraine are required to study at least one foreign language. Ninety percent study English.

You are obviously new to dating overseas. All girls who are sent a gift through a paid website or marriage agency, rarely take the gift. They always take the cash. The odds are, the photos you looked at are stock photos. Pick a color… any color and there you go. John’s letter with answers is full of interesting thoughts. Only purchase gifts through reputable companies, but never an agency. Half of the time, a girl is never even told she has been sent a gift. The agencies often forget and the gift is never delivered unless the lady asked…. WHAT HAPPENED!

If she says she doesn’t speak English, you need to find out if she is interested in taking English lessons. If she is willing, that is often a good thing. However, never pay her directly or through an agency or paid web site. This is not a request that she comes to our school. You can have her go anywhere. It just makes sense not to send money to someone you don’t know and have never met face to face.

You said you are using Skype every three weeks. Why is that? If you two are serious, why not speak with each other everyday? Even if she doesn’t speak English (which I seriously doubt) both of you will have a lot of fun. It’s not about the fact that you are speaking English, it’s more about the fact that you have taken the time to meet with her. Remember that people communicate many different ways. Only half or less of human communication is done with language.

Trust and honesty must be earned by time actions and deeds only after two people have met face to face and have spent time together. Ninety nine percent of all men who travel overseas to meet a Ukrainian woman with the hopes of building a lifelong loving relationship FAIL miserably. They fail to see what’s usually staring them right in the face.

Normally, I no longer have the time to reply in such detail. I wanted to take a little extra time today in the hopes that others will benefit from your search for true love and benefit from a few of my thoughts.

Also, International dating is just like playing rugby when the sport was first created. Unless you are both playing by the same rules, one is sure to lose the game and there will be more disagreements than you could possibly count. Searching for love isn’t a game, but dishonest ladies look at it exactly like that. A GAME WITH SPECIAL RULES…..

Just remember to keep your wallet closed and your eyes wide open.

Billgreen54
Nikolaev Ukraine

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John’s Letter with Answers

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Marriage Agencies. Questions and Answers

Marriage Agencies Questions Answers…

Larisa is from Ukraine…
Mykolaiv Marriage Agency
Questions about Agencies

Remember that most men who travel to Ukraine to meet a woman through marriage agencies, need guidance when it comes to International dating. Don’t allow an agency employee like a translator to tell you what to do. I recommend to my clients that they ask a few questions when they visit a Marriage Agency. Remember that agencies prey on unsuspecting men. They will often guide you in the direction to earn them cash. This might be apartment rental, taxi rental, interpreter rental and more. Do your homework and set yourself apart from the men who fail at asking the right questions.

The First Meeting. This is a Must Read!

Ask a Few Simple Questions…

Gorgeous Ukrainian Woman
Pretty Woman in Nikolaev

Ask a few simple questions. How old are the profiles in the catalog’s I’m viewing? Most of the time, less than twenty percent of the women in a catalog actually exist. If any profile is older than 6 months, ask why? How many men has she actually met through the agency representing her? Is she represented by other agencies? How many web sites is this ladies profile posted on? How often does she come to the agency? Agencies don’t like these type of questions but, they are all legitimate questions to ask. After all, you are searching for someone to share your life with. Most men ask more questions when shopping for a car. Doesn’t it just make sense to ask a few questions about the woman who will be driving it.

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Who Writes The Letters?…

Marriage Agency Letters
Agency Letter Writer

Does the agency actually physically translate letters sent to her or is she phoned and the letters translated and paraphrased over the phone? How does the lady respond to letters received? Does she actually come to the Marriage Agencies office with letter in hand? Or does she call the office with her comments? Remember that most letters are never read by the lady they are sent to. Actually, most love letters written to you at agencies are written by men. Ask the agency manager if a man has been writing love letters to you. They will be surprised you have done your homework.

Bill and Larisa First Met Ten Tears Ago…

Don’t be Afraid to Speak Up…

She has questions too
Questions for Everyone

All Marriage Agencies maintain records and should be able to answer any questions you have regarding a lady they represent. Don’t be afraid to ask any question you have to be sure you feel a level of confidence the lady you want to meet is serious about her search for a man to love. Asking questions at an agency will impress all who work there. Although they may not like you snooping around, they should answer your questions truthfully. While you are asking agency personnel these questions, watch their eyes. If they are lying, they usually give themselves away by expressions in their eyes.

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Want to know more? We would like to help you. Remember that each person is different. Every situation requires a unique perspective. No two people share the identical circumstances. If you are planning to be successful and find your angel, create a plan that works.

 

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Living in Nikolaev While Building Businesses

Living In Nikolaev Building Businesses

Our language school in Nikolaev continues to develop as planned along with daily opportunities. Our websites, on-line teaching and learning resources have continued to grow with no end in site. Living in Nikolaev has been a real life adventure the past nine years.

Meet with Bill now! Schedule a conference…

Opportunities in Nikolaev Ukraine…

Our development of The LSL Education Network is proving to be an amazing area of growth for on-line education and marketing improvements for other language schools in Ukraine. Additional projects under development are country specific web sites targeting education, information and on-line shopping. Living in Nikolaev is a real life adventure.

Bill and Larisa First Met Ten Tears Ago…

More Like a Dream…

Larisa Ukraine English
Electronic resources at Larisa English

If someone had told me ten years ago I’d be sharing my life with the woman of my dreams, I wouldn’t have imagined anything close to it. More like a dream, I think…. Larisa is always busy with the school and I stay busy writing. Media and educational content are updated daily. Larisa English Ukraine has up to date resources.

Bill is From California…

A True Life Adventure…

Language School Larisa
Larisa School of Language Nikolaev

Since Larisa and I first met on-line in December 2006, our lives have been forever blessed with a true life adventure. An adventure we couldn’t have imagined or written. An adventure that began on the road of life and continues to surprise and amaze around every twist and turn. You can have fun while living in Nikolaev.

Free Russian or English Lesson

Business Opportunities in Ukraine…

Learn English Ukraine
Students in Ukraine Study English

Coming to Ukraine in November 2007 to stay a while, proved to be perfect timing. While America began the economic nosedive in December 2007, Larisa and I were just beginning our life adventure together in Ukraine. Since then, we’ve taken advantage of every opportunity that has allowed us to learn each other and explore the many differences in our lives. Larisa has countless expressions that always make me smile.

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Don’t Go Home Empty Handed…

Man fails relationship
Lonely American Man

Meeting with clients in Nikolaev and on-line gives us the opportunity to share the experiences of others. Men who have tried their hand at searching for true love on this side of the planet. Over the past nine years, we have met countless men that have allowed us the opportunity to share their success stories as well as their trials and tribulations. Sadly, the majority of men go home empty handed without ever finding the woman of their dreams. There is a myriad of reasons for this. There are many places to stay while living in Nikolaev, contact us for information.

Why Choose Larisa English Ukraine?

Learn More Before You Travel…

Foreigner in Nikolaev Ukraine
Successful Man Foreigner

We are always happy to consult with friends from around the world. If you’re searching for your other half on this side of the planet, educate yourself and learn as much as possible from two people who have created a life together a little differently than most. Educate yourself before traveling to a foreign land to meet what you think could be Mrs Right. Living in Ukraine for over nine years is an unbelievable experience. Teaching over 15,000 hours of English has allowed me to learn so much. With Larisa’s help and friends, learning about Ukrainian society has be interesting and educational as well. Learn as much as possible about Ukraine before you travel to meet a lady.

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Want to know more? We would like to help you. Remember that each person is different. Every situation requires a unique perspective. No two people share the identical circumstances. If you are planning to be successful and find your angel, create a plan that works.

 

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Jim at 67. Does age difference really matter?

Jim at 67 and Age Difference

Jim wrote me wondering about age difference. This is the most talked about topic from friends around the world. Does age difference really matter? I shared some thoughts that I hope will offer a little more insight on the subject……. Enjoy!

 

Jim’s Letter…

Hi Bill and Larisa, thanks for your help.

I find Alla to be a beautiful woman. She appears to be a down to earth type person. Does she interest me, yes. Bill my only concern is her age. After reading articles regarding reasonable age differences, I wonder about the age gap of 30 years. I am sure that you and Larisa know far more about Alla than I do. What is your take on the age difference and what does Alla think? I love children, so Alla having 2 children is not a problem for me.

Thanks for the efforts of you and Larisa.
Jim

 

Bill’s Response…

Hi Jim, thanks for writing…..

Age difference
Jim 67 Nikolaev Ukraine

Age difference is often the first topic that comes up regarding cross cultural relationships. The first rule of thumb is this…. If two people truly love each other, age doesn’t matter. This school of thought is worldwide. That said, age does have a lot to do with many things in our everyday life as a person.

Meet with Bill now! Schedule a conference…

Common Life Experiences…

Young woman Nikolaev Ukraine
Age matters and Jim 67

When there’s a great age difference between two people, there are fewer common life experiences to build on together as a loving couple. This could be looked at as a disadvantage towards developing and maintaining a strong lifelong relationship. Age difference should be regarded as an opportunity to learn from each others book of life. It just makes common sense, the younger we are, the less we know. As we continue to grow through life, we learn from our successes and failures as well as examples set by others. When someone is in their twenties, for most of us, our adult lives are just beginning.

Bill and Larisa First Met Ten Tears Ago…

25, Time to Have a Baby…

Pretty woman Nikolaev
Beautiful Woman Nikolaev

For women at the age of 25, the road of life gets much more serious. If a Ukrainian woman isn’t in a genuine relationship by the time she’s 25, she might be considered an old maid. This has everything to do with child bearing age as well as the concern for proper health care. I’ve been told this by many women and men of all ages here. It’s always been part of the culture. Slavic men look at life more seriously towards their late twenties as opposed to their early twenties. This is for several reasons, including the fact that there are more women here than men. Many men still live with mom and dad into their late twenties and early thirties. Obviously, there is no pressure for men to create a life of their own.

Free Russian or English Lesson

Eight Years Age Difference…

Husband, Wife, Baby Nikolaev
Ukrainian Happy Family

For men, theirs no reason to marry early, there are plenty of women to develop a relationship with. For a man, by waiting a little longer, he has time to experience several relationships and have a better chance of finding a lifelong partner. The average age difference for a man and woman who are in a serious relationship in a cross cultural relationship with a woman from the FSU, is eight years. That said, the older a woman is here, the less importance placed on age difference.

Ukrainian Culture Course Online…

Love or Money?…

Love and Money
Love or Money Nikolaev

Every woman I’ve met in Nikolaev is more interested in what’s in a mans heart, not his pocketbook. That’s true whether the man comes from Ukraine or any other country in the world. For most women under the age of 25 to fall in love with a man in his 40’s, she will love your money much more than you. It’s probably true with men and women from most countries to have this same kind of mindset.

Where is Larisa School of English?

Chemistry, Luck and Age…

Relationship Nikolaev Ukraine
Love in Nikolaev Ukraine

My observations are based on my experience with hundreds of people while living in Ukraine over the past decade. If a man is serious, knows what he’s doing and has decided to seek a life partner in Ukraine, anything is possible. While eight years is the average age difference, I truly believe that twenty is the maximum. That said, Larisa and I are nineteen years apart. We don’t talk about age difference. In fact, age has never a topic for discussion. Looking back, for both of us, it just seemed natural to get to know more about each other without dwelling on age. We both agree that we were lucky to have found each other and their is no question about our chemistry.

Scammers in Nikolaev. Is she honest?

Nearing The Age of Forty…

Beautiful Ukrainian Woman
Ukrainian Woman Fortyish

As a Ukrainian woman approaches the age of 40, there is an increasing likelihood that she isn’t as concerned about age difference. She is more interested in finding a man that’s responsible, honest and loving. An honest man should think the same way. If you and a Ukrainian woman can find common ground with that magic and chemistry, anything is possible.

The First Meeting. This is a Must Read!

Money, Flat and Job…

A Ukrainian woman in her 40’s is also less likely to consider a relationship with a foreigner. Why? It’s all about where she is in her life and the near future. Most Ukrainian women in their 40’s are set for life. Many own a flat, have money in the bank, have a great job. Being less dependent on others, creates independence without the need to gamble with a foreign relationship.

Best regards,
Billgreen54

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Want to know more? We would like to help you. Remember that each person is different. Every situation requires a unique perspective. No two people share the identical circumstances. If you are planning to be successful and find your angel, create a plan that works.

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Important Letter to Bobby

 

Bobby’s Important Letter…

First, a few words…
I receive dozens of letters weekly from men all over the world. They often ask the same questions regarding websites and how to find a real Ukrainian woman. The sad part is, most men who search in Ukraine from other countries make the same mistakes over and over. An important letter is like many.

Important letter
Bobby has questions

Most men fail to create an honest relationship with a Ukrainian woman. This important letter to Bobby is an overview of how Marriage Agencies and dating websites work in Ukraine. This is just one important letter from one of many. Learn from it and increase your odds of success.

Honest Loving Relationship…

It’s impossible for me to advise every man who contacts me with the same answers. Every man has a unique set of circumstances. For a man who has just started to communicate with ladies in Ukraine, I can offer insights that come from my own experiences.

I share my thoughts and the experiences of thousands of other men searching for the same thing. A real honest loving relationship. Bobby’s important letter is inspiring.

If you are new to International dating or, if you have come to Ukraine to meet a real woman more than twice and failed: Take a step back. Educate yourself and learn what you need to know about finding the woman of your dreams.

A Decade Ago…

It was a decade ago, Larisa and I found each other on the Internet. Today, we live a great life in Nikolaev Ukraine. Larisa is the president of Larisa English Ukraine LLC and I spend my time writing, marketing and helping others. I hope you find useful information in Bobby’s letter.

The letter below was sent to me by Bobby. Enjoy!

 

Bobby’s Important Letter…

Bill,

I am glad I read the blog entry Jon (Joninfla) started on his page regarding his visit to Nikolaev (http://www.nikolaevukraine.net/forum/read.php?2,71). I was wondering what was the true nature of Anas….. services and Jon’s and your comments gave me pause about the site. While some woman I’ve chatted with have asked me to visit (mostly from Odessa and Kharkov) others were more evasive when I mentioned my plan to visit this summer, even though they seemed interested (on the surface).

Now that I have read what really happens on the ground I will be more cautious, selective.

Thanks again. Hope you can offer further insight.

Bobby

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Reply to Bobby’s Important Letter…

Hi Bobby,

Thanks for writing.

Jon is a great guy. We were glad to have met him in early 2008. He is married and quite happy. Since helping Jon, Larisa and I have helped hundreds personally and thousands on-line to have a better understanding of this process from start to finish.

Anas…. provides a website for Ukrainian marriage agencies to use as a marketing tool. The girls that work at agencies are paid a salary. The men and women who write letters are paid by the letter. Girls that chat with men are paid to chat. For ninety nine percent of the women found on Anas…, it’s nothing more than a job. Most are either married, in serious relationships, or use the money to support themselves.

Schedule Your Private Conference Today…

Most Ukrainian women never want to meet the man she is communicating with on an International dating website. They get paid to chat and write letters. Most of the women that are forced by the agency to meet a man from another country, find it disgusting and a waste of time.

The women and interpreters you actually meet in Ukraine, are well trained to extract as much cash from you as possible. In fact, most ladies working at agencies, are trained to scam and defraud as many foreigners as possible. In fact, these women are often trained by Americans and the British to take your money. They know they won’t get a second chance.

Most men who actually make it to Ukraine to meet a woman, fail to create a real relationship. They never come back. They fail to educate themselves and usually make silly mistakes. Men often make demands of a woman expecting her to do whatever he tells her to do. Not smart!

Bill is From California…

Education is the key to finding a real woman here. Educate yourself, and you stand a great chance of finding a real woman. There are countless women in Ukraine that would consider a loving relationship with a man from any country. You just have to know how to capture her heart. It’s much different than you think.

There are a number of ways to determine the honesty and sincerity of a woman on Anas……. Actually, it’s not difficult at all. A few simple questions and a couple of weeks. The first key to finding a serious Ukrainian woman, is to determine her honesty and sincerity.

Add Billgreen54 to your Skype. I look forward to meeting you.

Thanks again.

Billgreen54

UPDATE! Here is John’s letter posted at a forum,,, I have added this post here to preserve it from deletion at the forum. Bill

Here is a link to the post http://www.nikolaevukraine.net/forum/read.php?2,71

Hello, I thought I would post this blog about my trip to the city of Nikolaev. I have always wanted to visit the Ukraine as it seemed like some of the most beautiful women in the world lived there. So I started using the Anastasia Web site to communicate with several ladies.

I picked the city of Nikolaev over others such as Odessa because most of the ladies I really liked were from Nikolaev, so that’s how I made my decision of which city to visit. Long before my trip, I told all the ladies I planned to meet in Nikolaev about the dates of my trip.

At first, they seemed excited that I would travel so far to meet them. But about a week before my trip, most of them wrote me back saying they could not meet me during my trip because they had to leave town on business.

One lady even told me she did not think our correspondence was long enough and did not want to meet so soon, which I thought was kind of stupid to waste more time just writing without meeting face to face, so I decided not to meet her. I did not think anything of it at first, as I still had a few that I was communicating with that still were open to meeting me.

I am from Florida and I had the benefit of traveling with a Ukrainian family who live here in Florida and were visiting their family in the Ukraine. We flew from New York to Kiev, and then took a bus to the city of Kharkov. I stayed with the Ukrainian family for a few days while in Kharkov.

I have to admit, I was not impressed with this city as it seemed kind of dumpy and run down, and I never really saw any women there I had any interest in, so I was looking forward to my trip to Nikolaev. I took a train from Kharkov to Nikolaev.

I only point this out because if you are not familiar with the Ukrainian train system, you will be in for a shock. The cars are old, and the lights in all the cabins did not even work, so there I was in a cabin with two other people in the dark who I could not talk with.

I had the misfortune of being assigned the top bunk, and thank God I am still in decent shape to hoist myself into these beds. In any event, most
cities in the Ukraine have bus service that runs between all the major cities in the Ukraine. I would strongly recommend taking the bus or plane, and not the train if you can avoid it.

I arranged to stay in my own apartment while in Nikolaev. The apartment was close to town with plenty of restaurants. I really was impressed with this city as it was clean, the food was good, and the people were very friendly. I know there are some blogs where guys have wrote negative things about this city, but I really did not find any of this to be true.

My understanding is that Nikolaev has only been open to foreigners for only 10 years, so they may be a little behind the times economically but I actually think Nikolaev was in better condition than Kharkov.

During my stay, I managed to meet up with an American guy and his girlfriend who live in Nikolaev. When I told them about my experience with the agency, they explained that most of the girls who are members of the agency make a commission for every letter they receive and write. They actually showed me an ad in a local newspaper for an agency that was looking for women to join.

The agency splits the money 50/50 with the women for each letter sent and received. So now I understood why some of my ladies backed out of meeting with me. They really never had any intention of meeting. So for you guys who receive so many letters from women, beware, this is how they make a living.

When I step back and look at the big picture of what I know and have now experienced, I would say that when many of these agencies started back in the early 90’s, they were for the most part legit and many guys found their brides in a place like the Ukraine, but somewhere along the way, they also realized that they could make even more money buy offering to pay women to write letters. Once this happened, it has compromised the integrity of the entire process.

The sad part of all this is that there are women in the Ukraine who are serious about finding a partner in another country, but knowing which ladies are really looking for someone versus the Ladies who are in it for the money is not easy to determine. So my advice to you is as follows if you decide to use an agency:

1) Avoid any woman under the age of 25.
2) Know when you are planning to take a trip to the Ukraine, and only write for say 1 month before your trip, and tell them in the first letter when you will be coming. Hopefully, this will cut down on your expense of writing endless letters, and weed out the ladies who just want to keep you writing with no intention of a meeting.
3) The Anastasia company says that you can ask for the ladies phone number two weeks prior to your trip, so try and get her phone number if you can. This is another big sign if she is serious about meeting you or not if she agrees to give you her phone number.

If what I just shared scares you from the agencies, and you should be scared, what I also would like to suggest is finding the Ukrainian community in your area. In most areas of the United States at least, you can find them on the Internet. Most are affiliated with a church, so you could make some friends there who know ladies in the Ukraine who are friends or family that might be interested in meeting you.

Finally, I did meet up with an American guy who lives in Nikolaev who can help you with determining if the lady you are writing to is for real before you spend a huge sum on letters, so if you are interested, please write me and I can pass along his email address to you.

One last point, there are so many negative people on this forum saying how the Ukraine is full of scammers, which is not true. Actually, if you want to blame someone, blame the American operators of these agencies who have created this environment.

Don’t you think if Match.com or one of the other domestic agencies started paying women to join, the result would be any different? Think about it, and don’t be discouraged if you don’t find someone immediately. Of course you hear of the success stories, but I can almost guarantee that most of those guys who did find their soul mate had to go through a great deal of time and expense to get there.

Good Luck,

Jon

Bobby’s letter is just one of thousands we have received over the years.

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Are you communicating on-line with a Ukrainian woman?

 

Are You Communicating On-line?

 

Communicating On-line
Online Communication

There are many things you need to know before you begin your search for an honest woman willing to develop a serious relationship with a man from another country. Communicating on-line isn’t easy. It is just one method to use while searching for Mrs Right.

How do I know? I have helped men by the hundreds face to face in Nikolaev better understand the entire process. I have helped men by the thousands who have read my articles. I write about cross cultural relationships and the search for true love.

Why do I do it?

Simple, really. I think that knowledge is useless unless you share with others what you have learned in life. Nearly everyday, I speak directly to or communicate in some other fashion with men from all over the world. These are men searching for a woman to love and share his life with. Communicating on-line is one of the many ways to find your other half.

Find your Angel now! Speak with Bill…

 

Online Dating Nikolaev Ukraine
Dating Online Ukraine

There are three types of men who often need some guidance and an inside look at how all of this works. Marriage agencies, dating websites, tours and socials are all ways to meet people, but 99% of the time, you won’t find what you are searching for.

Why? Most men fail to educate themselves and often make the same mistakes over and over again and again. Most men I’ve met in Nikolaev over the years, have just given up and stopped coming to Ukraine thinking that somehow, there isn’t a woman here for him.

Bill and Larisa First Met Ten Tears Ago…

There IS a woman for YOU….

There are Ukrainian women by the thousands searching for a real man to share her life with. THOUSANDS AND THOUSANDS…

Where is MY LOVE?
Waiting for True Love

Why do most men and women fail to find each other and develop a loving relationship? For sure, they often make the same mistakes over and over.

Most men who actually travel to Ukraine fail to educate themselves as well as develop an understanding of the Ukrainian culture and why it’s much different than other cultures.

Why is it important to learn as much as possible about traditions, the culture, people, superstitions, language and more…? So you don’t make the same mistakes MOST men make trying to develop a serious relationship.

Larisa is from Ukraine…

Dating sites Ukraine
Dating Long Distance

Learn as much as possible about Ukraine and the people who live here and set yourself apart from the others. Do what impresses a real Ukrainian woman. Schedule a conference. I will help you find the woman who is searching for you.

Just remember that every person is in a different situation. No two people share the same life. Create a solid plan that works for you and start sharing your life with a real loving Ukrainian woman.

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Want to know more? We would like to help you. Remember that each person is different. Every situation requires a unique perspective. No two people share the identical circumstances. If you are planning to be successful and find your angel, create a plan that works.

 

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A Letter to Robert…

Letter to Robert…

This is a letter from my friend, Robert. This article was originally written in 2009. It was updated in 2016. It was a reply to Robert asking “What is the best way to find a real woman in Ukraine?” Like every man who searches in Ukraine, his situation is different in many ways. My letter to Robert was a general reply and includes useful information for everyone.

Hi Robert,

Billgreen54 Dating Advice
Dating Education Information

We’re happy to help any way we can. I started searching for Larisa in early 2006. I’m glad she found me:) We first met on the Internet in December 2006. This letter to Robert will help you with your search.

Can I ask where you are from? Why are you searching overseas? What is your age? Have you ever traveled to Ukraine?

I have a few thoughts to share with you that are key to better understanding the process of searching for a real woman in an FSU country. Here they are…

Why are Ukrainian Women Special?

Go into this with open eyes.

 

Women Relationship
Learn with open eyes

Searching for your other half in a foreign land is always filled with surprises. Not only are you seeking a life partner from another country, you are also searching for someone has just as much fear of the unknown as you. While trusting your instincts is natural, be aware of questionable or odd sounding statements and situations. My letter to Robert comes from over ten years experience helping others achieve their goals.

Schedule Your Private Conference Today…

Never send money before meeting her.

Send money to woman
Cash in Ukraine

Sending money to someone you have never met face to face and formed a real relationship with is always a bad idea. Most men who send money, tell me, they did it for the same reason; Because they could! What they fail to realize is that real women never ask for anything except your heart. If a woman decides to test you by asking for money or gifts, be careful. It is not about whether you can or not. It is more about you doing something silly. Only odd men try to buy love here. Spending much more than a twenty will put you in the same group as the others. Set yourself apart and you increase the odds of building a real relationship by a hundred fold.

The First Meeting. This is a Must Read!

Never buy English from a marriage agency.

Study English Nikolaev
Love and English Nikolaev

Marriage agencies make money many different ways. The odds of your money going towards English lessons is zero. Agencies and the women who work at them, make money many different ways. One of those is by offering English lessons. I have been told by countless ladies in Nikolaev that money paid for lessons is always split between the agency and girl. Buy English lessons from a reputable language school.

Bill is From California…

Age difference matters.

Family and Children Ukraine
Ukrainian Family Life

Web sites and marriage agencies attempt to make you think that somehow, age difference never matters. The truth is, it does. It matters a lot. Time between two people is important for many reasons. Don’t be fooled by someone who tells you age difference does not matter. The average age difference between a Ukrainian woman and a Ukrainian man is just three years. For a foreigner and a Ukrainian woman, it is eight. While this is an average, there are beautiful relationships as far as twenty years apart. That is the true exception. It is one in a million.

Compare Larisa English School

Verify the lady’s information.

Dating Information Online
Investigate Information

Remember that, just like any society and relationship, honesty and trust must be earned by time, actions and deeds. Be very careful trusting a woman on the Internet before you’ve actually met her in person and have developed a positive, ongoing relationship. This letter to Robert will help you determine if he is real or not.

Free Russian or English Lesson

Risk is financial and emotional.

Marriage Agency Secrets
Nikolaev dating secrets

As with any new technology, a person must be skilled and experienced to take full advantage of the benefits of the Internet. Understand that communicating and considering a relationship with a woman overseas, puts at risk every asset you own, both financially and emotionally.

Where is Larisa School of English?

Plan for a two year adventure.

Road of Life Nikolaev
Time, Travel Relationship

The entire process of searching for a life partner in an FSU country is a journey in life that will most likely take no less than two years of your life. Searching for your life partner in Ukraine is definitely not an overnight proposition. If you are lucky enough to find the woman searching for you, plan on the next two years of your life to be a little unsettled. A letter to Robert is written to help everyone searching for true love in Ukraine.

Do You Speak English?

Website introduction service.

Letter Communication
Communicating with Letters

As far as web web sites go, they are there to make money, just like any for profit enterprise anywhere. You should regard all web sites as nothing more than an introduction service. Communicating with a woman on the Internet should be done in stages for many reasons. Letters…. no more than a month to six weeks at two per week both ways.

English Eight Parts of Speech

Communicate if possible beforehand.

Relationship Honesty
Relationship Communication

Chat, with video is a must for no more than a few weeks from time to time. Phone conversations and SMS for a few weeks. Two way video chat with the help of an interpreter for the first time depending on language skills from both sides. All of these ways to communicate should also be done in combination with each other. If you get to this stage with one woman and your sixth sense kicks in, or you just want to come and meet her, then it’s time to meet face to face in her country. Without following these simple rules, you never know who you have been communicating with.

Larisa is from Ukraine…

Never do it alone.

Love is Priceless
Falling in Love Nikolaev

Never do this without the help of someone who knows how things work in Ukraine. No man should do this alone. No man should search for a woman to love and share his life with from another country without the help of a friend. A basic knowledge of this process is imperative. Having an outside view of your ongoing situation is an absolute must to help you accomplish your goals.

Bill and Larisa First Met Ten Tears Ago…

Money and your heart.

Lost Love Nikolaev
Relationships Nikolaev Ukraine

There is a lot more to this. Yes, it is okay to follow your best instincts. However, don’t wear your heart on your shoulders. Be careful and remember that most men who search overseas are often very naive. This can play into the hands of someone who just wants your money and not your heart. You should always be a little suspicious of anyone who wants your money for any reason. Just be careful not to be overly suspicious without reason.

Schedule a conference with Bill today!

Want to know more? We would like to help you. Remember that each person is different. Every situation requires a unique perspective. No two people share the identical circumstances. If you are planning to be successful and find your angel, create a plan that works.

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A Letter From Ray and A Fish Story!

Letter from Ray…  by Billgreen54

Update 2016. Here is a letter from Ray I have updated. The same facts apply with updates throughout this article. Larisa and I meet with friends daily in Nikolaev. We stay busy helping and educating others. This is our ninth year living in Nikolaev together. I hope you find this article informative and useful.

Knowledge is power
We have dating questions

Bill,

Through ABC [Name Removed], which do you think is better:
The social – where I get to meet ladies for 4 hours
“Something Club”, where I am “matched” on dates, with 3 ladies per day for 7 days [this costs twice as much as the social]

Also, what do you think about placing an advertisement in the local newspaper, stating that a US citizen is looking for a bride with my email ID and/or my Ukrainian phone number?

Sincerely,
Ray.
Hi Ray,

Thank you for contacting us.

I don’t endorse the services you mentioned. Never put a limit on love. With the ladies; Just remember to keep your eyes wide open and your wallet closed. Helping men by the hundreds over the past nine years has produced a priceless education and created a tremendous bank of knowledge. I thank Larisa for this. She is the reason I came to Ukraine to start a new chapter in our lives. This letter from Ray is a good example of questions most men have.

Most just give up.

Never too late
Don’t give up

Sadly, most men who attempt to find a life partner in Ukraine fail to educate themselves beforehand. They often make very common mistakes that are totally avoidable. Most stop searching in Ukraine. They just give up because they failed to find a serious woman to love. There is no reason for this. If they had just taken more time to educate themselves, they too would have been successful. While we offer many services, our primary focus is education. It’s one of the many things most websites and companies offering tours fail at miserably. Also? We can’t help everyone that asks. We try to focus our efforts for each individuals reasonable goals.

Bill and Larisa First Met Ten Tears Ago…

Nikolaev and whirlwind socials.

Meet and Greet Nikolaev
Meet women in Nikolaev

Don’t be fooled by empty promises made by companies offering meet and greet services. There are just two left that still haul me to Nikolaev for whirlwind socials. While no single person can promise true love services, in the world of relationships, anything is possible. Just know that when you put yourself in the middle of eight or nine odd guys, you set yourself up for failure. My letter from Ray response is based on many years experience while living in Ukraine.

Dave’s Question about Mark Davies…

Just six to eight men.

Special events Nikolaev
Social event Nikolaev Ukraine

There are just a couple of companies still offering the services you mentioned. The Nikolaev tour and socials business has been drying up for years. Ten years ago, there were an average of one hundred men on a tour. Five years ago, there was an average of two dozen who would get off a bus. In 2013, there were an average of 16 guys on six different tours we counted. In 2015, the last tour company from Los Angeles, brought less than a dozen on each tour. This company usually hauls six to eight men on every trip to Nikolaev.

Meet with Bill now! Schedule a conference…

Capture her heart.

Nikolaev Ukraine Relationship
Love in Nikolaev Ukraine

Most Ukrainian women no longer have the desire to leave Ukraine. Anyone that tells you differently, isn’t being honest. Real women don’t go to agencies or attend socials. However, most Ukrainian women searching for a life partner would consider a man from any country. Capture her heart and anything is possible. The letter from ray has ideas and facts that will help you.

Native English Speakers Teacher Training

No luck again.

Successful relationship
True love is possible

We count every tour that comes to Nikolaev. There are just two companies offering these services that we are aware of. We have interviewed many of the men who have come on these tours. They all tell us the same thing. No luck again… Why is that?

American English Schools Ukraine

Los Angeles tour company.

Big city relationships
The Big City

Over the past few years, men who attend meet and greet socials, have visited Larisa and I in Nikolaev while they are in town. Our office is on the corner of Sovietskaya and Shevchenko. We have met many of the men who pay big money to a company in Los Angeles to meet women at socials. They tell me how disappointed they are with those services. We hope to someday meet a man that has found true love with that company.

Start your own Language School

Most men are regulars.

People around the world
Men Around the World

More facts… Most of the men who actually still come on these tours are regulars. These men have traveled to Ukraine on tours many times with no success. Why do they do it? Most men come to Ukraine with their last hope. Sadly, these men will never find a real woman while attending any social or tour. They always go home a lot poorer. Why would you put yourself in a group of men like that? The letter from ray is typical of questions I receive daily.

Ukrainian Culture Course Online…

Educate yourself now.

Dating advice Nikolaev
Educate Nikolaev Ukraine

The current and most successful way to meet a real woman in Ukraine is to live in Ukraine for a while. Meet real people. Educate yourself. Learn the culture. Learn a little of the language. Make fewer mistakes. Impress a woman. As far as meeting real people, it’s no different than your country.

English Grammar Pronouns Explained

Find that chemistry.

Chemistry dating advice
Love chemistry relationship

Show Ukrainians who you really are and they will help you find a real woman to meet. With a little luck and education, hopefully you will find that chemistry as well. Meet real women through friends. Just like anywhere else!

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Increase your odds.

Success Nikolaev Ukraine
Odds of Success

Most men meet ladies online through marriage agencies and dating sites. There is a method that will increase your odds of finding a real honest woman online. I would be happy to share those thoughts with you in a conference.

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Newspaper advertising.

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Newspaper Advertising Nikolaev

Placing an ad in a newspaper is a waste of time. Your phone will ring off the hook with scammers looking for cash and prizes. In the past nine years while living in Nikolaev, I have never met any man that would do it again. This too, is a last ditch effort by men who fail to educate themselves. The last guy who put an ad in a local paper was inundated with phony phone calls by marriage agencies trying to sell their services to him. He had to get a new phone number.

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Advice and suggestions.

Friendly advice for clients
Meeting with friends

If you have been searching for a real woman in Ukraine for twelve months or more without success; you are doing it the wrong way. When I know more about an individuals personal situation, I can offer advice and suggestions that fits. Remember that no two people are alike. Every person who searches in Ukraine has a different set of circumstances.

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Never do this alone.

Searching Alone
Doing it alone

Lastly, no man should do this alone. No man should search for a woman to love and share his life with from another country without the help of a friend that has a basic knowledge of this process. Having an outside view of your ongoing situation is an absolute must to help you accomplish your goals and to help you responsibly manage and protect your time and money.

 

Thanks again.

Billgreen54
Helping others Since 2008.

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Want to know more? We would like to help you. Remember that each person is different. Every situation requires a unique perspective. No two people share the identical circumstances. If you are planning to be successful and find your angel, create a plan that works.

 

 

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A Few Insights for Bobby

A Few Insights for Bobby… Billgreen54

A few insights for Bobby was updated late 2016. It is full of information regarding dating web sites and how they work. I receive dozens of letters weekly from men all over the world. They often ask the same questions regarding websites and how to find a real Ukrainian woman. The sad part is, most men who search in Ukraine from other countries make the same mistakes over and over. Most men fail to create an honest relationship with a Ukrainian woman.

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Honest Loving Relationship.

Few Insights
Loving Couple on the beach

It’s impossible for me to advise every man who contacts me with the same answers. Every man has a unique set of circumstances. For a man who has just started to communicate with ladies in Ukraine, I can offer insights that come from my own experiences. I share my thoughts and the experiences of thousands of other men searching for the same thing. A real honest loving relationship. A few insights for Bobby has great information and advice.

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Educate Yourself and Learn.

If you are new to International dating or, if you have come to Ukraine to meet a real woman more than twice and failed: Take a step back. Educate yourself and learn what you need to know about finding the woman of your dreams.

The letter below was originally sent to me by Bobby on May 4, 2013. Enjoy!

Bill,

I am glad I read the blog entry Jon (Joninfla) started on his page regarding his visit to Nikolaev. I was wondering what was the true nature of Anas….. services and Jon’s and your comments gave me pause about the site. While some woman I’ve chatted with have asked me to visit (mostly from Odessa and Kharkov) others were more evasive when I mentioned my plan to visit this summer, even though they seemed interested (on the surface).

Now that I have read what really happens on the ground I will be more cautious, selective.

Thanks again. Hope you can offer further insight.

Bobby
Hi Bobby,

Thanks for writing.

A Few Insights for Bobby.

Jon is a great guy. We were glad to have met him eight years ago in early 2008. He is married and quite happy. Since helping Jon, Larisa and I have helped hundreds personally and thousands on-line better understand this process from start to finish. Here are my thoughts regarding marriage agencies, web sites and more.

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Girls get paid.

Anas…. provides a website for Ukrainian marriage agencies to use as a marketing tool. The girls that work at agencies are paid a salary. The men and women who write letters are paid by the letter. Girls that chat with men are paid to chat. For ninety nine percent of the women found on Anas…, it’s nothing more than a job. Most are either married, in serious relationships, or use the money to support themselves.

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It is Just a Job.

Most Ukrainian women never have the desire to meet a man she is communicating with on an International dating website. They get paid to chat and write letters. Most of the women that are forced by the agency to meet a man from another country, find it disgusting and a waste of time. While there may be a serious lady or two, most do it for a job. I hope you find answers to your questions with a few insights for Bobby.

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Ladies are Well Trained.

The women and interpreters you actually meet in Ukraine, are well trained to extract as much cash from you as possible. In fact, most ladies working at agencies, are trained to scam and defraud as many foreigners as possible. In fact, these women are often trained by Americans and the British to take your money. They know they won’t get a second chance.

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They Never Come Back.

Most men who actually come to Ukraine to meet a woman, fail to create a real relationship. They never come back. They fail to educate themselves and usually do very stupid things. Men often make demands of a woman expecting her to do whatever he tells her to do. Not smart!

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Capture Her Heart.

Education is the key to finding a real woman here. Educate yourself, and you stand a great chance of finding a real woman. There are countless women in Ukraine that would consider a loving relationship with a man from any country. You just have to know how to capture her heart. It’s much different than you think. There are many more thoughts than a few insights for Bobby, this article has just a few.

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Honesty and Sincerity.

There are a number of ways to determine the honesty and sincerity of a woman on Anas……. Actually, it’s not difficult at all. A few simple questions and a couple of weeks. The first key to finding a serious Ukrainian woman, is to determine her honesty and sincerity. Simple questions like “Did you study a foreign language at school?” Most will tell you “No”. This is so she can get you to pay for English lessons. Of course, they never take the English lessons; they take the cash.

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Want to know more? We would like to help you. Remember that each person is different. Every situation requires a unique perspective. No two people share the identical circumstances. If you are planning to be successful and find your angel, create a plan that works.

 

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