A few insights for Bobby was updated late 2016. It is full of information regarding dating web sites and how they work. I receive dozens of letters weekly from men all over the world. They often ask the same questions regarding websites and how to find a real Ukrainian woman. The sad part is, most men who search in Ukraine from other countries make the same mistakes over and over. Most men fail to create an honest relationship with a Ukrainian woman.
It’s impossible for me to advise every man who contacts me with the same answers. Every man has a unique set of circumstances. For a man who has just started to communicate with ladies in Ukraine, I can offer insights that come from my own experiences. I share my thoughts and the experiences of thousands of other men searching for the same thing. A real honest loving relationship. A few insights for Bobby has great information and advice.
Educate Yourself and Learn.
If you are new to International dating or, if you have come to Ukraine to meet a real woman more than twice and failed: Take a step back. Educate yourself and learn what you need to know about finding the woman of your dreams.
The letter below was originally sent to me by Bobby on May 4, 2013. Enjoy!
I am glad I read the blog entry Jon (Joninfla) started on his page regarding his visit to Nikolaev. I was wondering what was the true nature of Anas….. services and Jon’s and your comments gave me pause about the site. While some woman I’ve chatted with have asked me to visit (mostly from Odessa and Kharkov) others were more evasive when I mentioned my plan to visit this summer, even though they seemed interested (on the surface).
Now that I have read what really happens on the ground I will be more cautious, selective.
Thanks again. Hope you can offer further insight.
Bobby Hi Bobby,
Thanks for writing.
A Few Insights for Bobby.
Jon is a great guy. We were glad to have met him eight years ago in early 2008. He is married and quite happy. Since helping Jon, Larisa and I have helped hundreds personally and thousands on-line better understand this process from start to finish. Here are my thoughts regarding marriage agencies, web sites and more.
Girls get paid.
Anas…. provides a website for Ukrainian marriage agencies to use as a marketing tool. The girls that work at agencies are paid a salary. The men and women who write letters are paid by the letter. Girls that chat with men are paid to chat. For ninety nine percent of the women found on Anas…, it’s nothing more than a job. Most are either married, in serious relationships, or use the money to support themselves.
It is Just a Job.
Most Ukrainian women never have the desire to meet a man she is communicating with on an International dating website. They get paid to chat and write letters. Most of the women that are forced by the agency to meet a man from another country, find it disgusting and a waste of time. While there may be a serious lady or two, most do it for a job. I hope you find answers to your questions with a few insights for Bobby.
The women and interpreters you actually meet in Ukraine, are well trained to extract as much cash from you as possible. In fact, most ladies working at agencies, are trained to scam and defraud as many foreigners as possible. In fact, these women are often trained by Americans and the British to take your money. They know they won’t get a second chance.
Most men who actually come to Ukraine to meet a woman, fail to create a real relationship. They never come back. They fail to educate themselves and usually do very stupid things. Men often make demands of a woman expecting her to do whatever he tells her to do. Not smart!
Education is the key to finding a real woman here. Educate yourself, and you stand a great chance of finding a real woman. There are countless women in Ukraine that would consider a loving relationship with a man from any country. You just have to know how to capture her heart. It’s much different than you think. There are many more thoughts than a few insights for Bobby, this article has just a few.
There are a number of ways to determine the honesty and sincerity of a woman on Anas……. Actually, it’s not difficult at all. A few simple questions and a couple of weeks. The first key to finding a serious Ukrainian woman, is to determine her honesty and sincerity. Simple questions like “Did you study a foreign language at school?” Most will tell you “No”. This is so she can get you to pay for English lessons. Of course, they never take the English lessons; they take the cash.
Want to know more? We would like to help you. Remember that each person is different. Every situation requires a unique perspective. No two people share the identical circumstances. If you are planning to be successful and find your angel, create a plan that works.